If the person is willing to talk
Have a specific assessment option ready, including who to call and what needs to be confirmed. The aim is to make seeking help practical rather than demanding an immediate commitment to a programme that has not been assessed.
If the person declines treatment
Agree which boundaries relatives can keep consistently and who they can contact for further guidance. Avoid making threats that cannot be carried out. A refusal does not remove the family’s need for support or a safety plan.
If the situation becomes unsafe
A planned intervention conversation must give way to urgent professional help when there is immediate danger. Read the family support and boundaries guide and ask about the assessment pathway on the services directory.