Identify an earlier moment to respond
In sessions, work through a recent incident in sequence: the situation, physical cues, interpretation, response and consequence. This makes it easier to discuss where a different action could be tried before conflict escalates.
Rehearse communication and time-outs
Agree how a pause in a difficult conversation will work and when the discussion can resume. A time-out should help prevent escalation, not become a way to avoid responsibility. Practise specific, respectful language rather than relying on a promise to remain calm.
Check the broader context
Persistent anger may need discussion alongside sleep, substance use or other mental-health concerns. Ask whether psychological therapy or psychiatric assessment is appropriate. Skills work does not replace immediate safety measures when someone is being threatened.